Author: 
caholmes
ID: 
023a
Type of Post: 
discussion
Keywords: 
God, religious
Religious Affiliation: 
non-religious
Type of Loss: 
stillbirth
Codes (Bakker): 
Age at time of post: 
unknown
Living children at time of post?: 
yes
Time Since Loss: 
3 months (Nov. 2009)
Months since loss (at time of post): 
3
Gender: 
F
Images in Post: 
NA
Date of Post: 
2/22/2010
Date of Access: 
6/23/2012
Number of Comments: 
NA
URL of post: 
http://www.glowinthewoods.com/discussion/post/1018548#post1021786
Author blog title: 
http://livemotionally.wordpress.com/
Author blog URL: 
http://livemotionally.wordpress.com/

SCM - have you read that book [When Bad Things Happen to Good People]? I'm reading it now and it's actually making so much sense. I didn't think I would get that much out of it because I'm not really that religious and not even sure if I believe in God. So I don't feel let down by "Him" so to speak. But the book still makes a great arguement for chaos and how random our universe really is. Looking at the big picture helps me. I can't think in terms of fairness if it really has nothing to do with me. So I'll keep telling myself that...

Codes (Paris): 
Comments (Bakker): 

comforted by chaos; another negative example of code 4, even though same argument could be used by religious person ("When Bad Things Happen to Good People")