Author: 
Michelle (a)
ID: 
043
Type of Post: 
comment
Keywords: 
religious
Religious Affiliation: 
atheist
Type of Loss: 
Trisomy 18 (unknown whether stillbirth or neonatal death)
Codes (Bakker): 
Age at time of post: 
unknown
Living children at time of post?: 
unknown
Time Since Loss: 
7 months (Mar 2008)
Months since loss (at time of post): 
7
Gender: 
F
Images in Post: 
NA
Date of Post: 
10/21/2008
Date of Access: 
6/12/2012
Number of Comments: 
NA
URL of post: 
http://www.glowinthewoods.com/home/2008/10/16/you-keep-on-walking.html#comments
Author blog title: 
unknown

I just loved this post. I too am an atheist and feel as though there is something wrong with me when I don't feel comfort by religious cliché-type sentiments. It's very hard at times to try to breathe under the weight of the grief and recover from the shock of the slap of religious platitudes. I personally feel it would do my 'experience' some injustice by resigning it all up to some overlooking-righteous-yet loving and good-bestower of life (for you, but not YOU)and death (oops gotta take YOU back because of my super complex and secret plan)person/entity. I do not feel sad to not believe in such a story. I am healing by letting my wound feel the wind and sun, not by covering it with pretty bandages.

Codes (Paris): 
Comments (Bakker): 

negative example of code 4; not finding comfort in religion