ID:
014a
Type of Post:
dicussion
Keywords:
God
Religious Affiliation:
Christian
Type of Loss:
stillbirth
Codes (Bakker):
Age at time of post:
late 30s
Living children at time of post?:
yes
Time Since Loss:
death in Jan. 2010, birth in April 2010 due to surviving twin's gestation
Months since loss (at time of post):
1
Gender:
F
Images in Post:
NA
Date of Post:
2/6/2010
Date of Access:
6/21/2012
Number of Comments:
NA
URL of post:
http://www.glowinthewoods.com/discussion/post/1006827#post1012188
O wish I could tell people I know in RL who are 'thinking of me' (but who haven't called, sent a card, or anything else), that thinking of me provides me no comfort whatsoever. At least PRAY for me or Abby, and if you're not the praying sort, then call me or send me a quick e-mail or a short note. Thinking of me and nothing else feels cowardly, selfish and lazy.
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I wish I could tell people who tell me that 'maybe God let this happen to save Abby's life', or that 'maybe this is for the better, because he might've had a heart defect or something' that their words provide me no comfort and that they have no idea why this happened or how God works so they probably need to shut it.
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Codes (Paris):