I am sorry for your loss. I lost my child 2 years nine months and 15 days ago. The rage and pain is still with me. I have my wife most of the time to vent with. She has the same pain as i do. I also went bowling at lot (my hobby) i was able to release a tone of tention by flinging the ball down the lane as fast as i could for several hours. I always have to remind myself now and then that people are stupid. They only think about themselves for the most part. i still would love to make them digest their tongues once i a while but i don't. I try had to keep in control for my family and my wife because they still need me, no matter how hard it is form me. i am the man and i have to pick up and carry on. no one can understand until they have to go through it. it is different for men, women, grandparents, brothers, sisters and so on, but we all have to go through it. there is no way around the pain and the billions of stupid people out there. I have also found myself a little closer to God. So i say God bless you and your family my you continue to grow and strengthen during this time.
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088
Type of Post:
discussion
Keywords:
God
Religious Affiliation:
monotheist
Type of Loss:
unknown (though presumed stillbirth)
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Age at time of post:
unknown
Living children at time of post?:
unknown
Time Since Loss:
2 years, nine months
Months since loss (at time of post):
33
Gender:
M
Images in Post:
NA
Date of Post:
5/21/2012
Date of Access:
6/23/2012
Number of Comments:
NA
URL of post:
http://www.glowinthewoods.com/discussion/post/1830738
May 21, 2012 | BEAR
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