Eve - so good to hear the hope in your voice and post. I would agree with Eliza that A Grief Observed is powerful stuff. I've always found C.S. Lewis' works to be great food for thought. My support group last week (meets monthly sponsored by the hospital where we had Elizabeth - I had the sort of wonderful experience you just had with nurses and chaplains and paranatal bereavement folks) talked a lot about faith and growing in faith and being angry with God, asking why yet not getting an answer. I agree with you that a deepening of faith seems to be a part of this loss for me. Ironic in some ways.
At any rate, my prayer request would be for a good postpartum exam on Wednesday, I'm a little nervous about it and a peace about knowing when to try to conceive again.
You have been in my prayers and what a joy to know they've been answered "yes". You and your family will continue to be in my prayers.